Nobody is born a debater; it is a learned skill.
It does not matter if you are debating from a podium or you are trying to establish your stand in a gathering of cousins and friends, your argumentative skills as a debater will help you.
Most people feel that since they are not born debaters, there is no way in which they can become good debaters.
However, that is far from being true. Debating is a skill that can be easily acquired with a little bit of effort and practice.
Stand out in the crowd by learning the art of persuasion, negotiation, mindful speaking, active listening etc.